Principles

Life Rules for Decision-Making

Rules for making better decisions: define criteria, reduce options, and choose actions that match your values.

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8 rules in this template
  1. 01

    Decide with criteria, not mood.

    Write 3 criteria, then score options. Feelings matter, but criteria prevent drift.

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  2. 02

    Limit options to three.

    If you have more than three, you haven't filtered. Too many options is a disguised fear.

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  3. 03

    Choose the path with feedback.

    Prefer decisions that teach you quickly. Fast feedback reduces long-term regret.

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  4. 04

    Don't decide when hungry, angry, lonely, or tired.

    Delay major decisions until your body is regulated. Your future deserves your best state.

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  5. 05

    Write a pre-mortem.

    Assume the decision failed. List why. Then address the top two risks.

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  6. 06

    Regret is information, not punishment.

    If you regret something, extract the lesson and update your rulebook. Don't replay the movie.

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  7. 07

    If it's a no now, it's a no.

    Avoid 'maybe' that drains energy. Say no cleanly, or set a date and condition for yes.

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  8. 08

    If you choose it, commit.

    Once you decide, stop browsing alternatives. Execution needs closure.

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